Dr. Techie - 22 April 2008 10:38 AM
I suspect that I would thoroughly enjoy his company for up to an hour at at a time.
I sure did. I once managed to arrange for myself and a small group of friends to have lunch with him, and enjoyed it immensely.
I believe it. I never met him, but I know the type: congenial and vastly entertaining, so long as at the center of attention. Come to think of it, my daughter is the same way. Of course she is not quite five months old.
Dr. Techie - 22 April 2008 10:38 AM
Oh, and did I mention that he left his first wife, the mother of his children, by packing up his stuff and leaving a note while she was out of the house?
Is that in his biography? Which biography? As I recall, he barely talked about his divorce in In Memory Yet Green/In Joy Still Felt. I don’t recall I, Asimov or It’s Been a Good Lifeso well; truth to tell, I’m not sure if I read them or if they’re still sitting on the shelf waiting for me to get a round tuit.
It would be the second volume, In Joy Still Felt. He doesn’t talk about the underlying reasons for the divorce. It could be that his first wife was a horrid shrew, and he was too much a gentleman to say so. More likely, it was a more typical growing apart. But the bit about his slipping out the door was in the book.
Part of what fascinated me reading this is his unselfconsciousness. He had a public persona of over-the-top egotism, but it was always with a wink at the reader, who was in on the joke. But in the autobiography, his egotism does not come across that way to me.
Another example: He was at a science fiction convention (Boskone, I think) and being treated like a king and loving it. But he had made a previous commitment to speak at a chemistry convention and had to leave the con early. He was unhappy about this, expecting a small audience. As he sat in the auditorium while other speakers gave their presentations the audience gradually drifted away, getting smaller and smaller and Asimov getting more and more unhappy. But as his scheduled time approached, people started drifting back into the hall, and by the time for his talk, the room was packed. He gave a brilliant talk, received thunderous applause, and was treated like a king: all was well! The kicker is he comments that ever since, he has been confident of receiving this treatment by any group with (I’m paraphrasing) any pretensions to intellect or learning. I detected no hint of the Asimov wink to the reader.
I grew up idolizing Asimov. I recognized the game, and was more than happy to play along. It was a bit disconcerting coming back decades later and realizing this is someone I would not have been able to tolerate being around.