The origin of the stick-no-bigger-than-a-thumb folklaw would seem to be a 1782 incident, or at least that’s the earliest such connection between thumbs and weapons of spousal assault that has been found. The incident involved Francis Buller, a judge on the king’s bench who allegedly stated that it was lawful for a husband to beat his wife with stick so long as it was no bigger than his thumb. No record of Buller saying any such thing has been found, but it was widely attributed to him at the time and earned him the sobriquet of Judge Thumb. The lack of a written record indicates, that if he said such a thing, it may have been a personal opinion and not any kind of judicial ruling.
Important in understanding this incident is that public opinion at the time was solidly against Buller’s statement, and he was roundly excoriated for it. Spousal abuse in eighteenth-century England, while then all too common as it unfortunately still is today, was uniformly seen as wrong, at least by the press and those that had a public voice. Two satirical cartoons about Buller and his unfortunate statement were published that year, both pictured here. One is by James Gillray, titled Judge Thumb, or__Patent Sticks for Family Correction: Warranted Lawful! and published on 27 November 1782. The second is anonymous, titled Mr. Justice Thumb in the Act of Flagellation and is of uncertain date. The copy in the British Museum bears two dates, one says “Rambl. Mag. Jan. 1783” and the other 27 November 1782. Complicating matters, the British Museum’s description of the article gives a date of 1 February 1782. I have been unable to locate the Rambler Magazine in question.
Nor was the incident quickly forgotten. A poem submitted to the Wit’s Magazine of October 1784 reads:
Yet still, if to wed proves at last my sad lot,
Thro’ Fate’s never-failing decree;
I’ll endeavour to tie up the conjugal knot,
With a girl who’s good-temper’d and free.
But should she, by brawling, embitter my life
Judge Thumb gives the law on my side;
Who says, if a man has a termagant wife,
With a CANE he may liquor her hide.
And a song titled The Prophets appears in a 1790 collection of popular tunes:
Then Moses sung first as a president should,
And laid down the law as at time it stood;
He quoted his thumb-book, and swore with
a nod, [with a rod.
That the ladies should soon flog Judge Thumb
Derry down.
It is this alleged statement by Buller that first promulgated the folklaw. The folklaw has been mentioned in a handful of subsequent legal decisions, all American. In only one decision did a court recognize the folklaw as valid, but that was reversed on appeal. But while the idea that a man could whip his wife with a thumb-sized cane or switch was almost always rejected by American courts, these nineteenth-century decisions are hardly great victories for the rights of women.
The first is a Mississippi case from 1824, Bradley vs. State, in which the judge opined:
It is true, according to the old law, the husband might give his wife moderate correction, because he is answerable for her misbehaviour; hence it was thought reasonable, to intr[u]st him, with a power, necessary to restrain the indiscretions of one, for whose conduct he was to be made responsible. [...] Sir William Blackstone says, during the reign of Charles the first, this power was much doubted.—Notwithstanding the lower orders of people still claimed and exercised it as an inherent privilege, which could not be abandoned, without entrenching upon their rightful authority, known and acknowledged from the earliest periods of the common law, down to the present day. I believe it was in a case before Mr. Justice Raymond, when the same doctrine was recognised, with proper limitations and restrictions, well suited to the condition and feelings of those, who might think proper to use a whip or rattan, no bigger than my thumb, in order to inforce the salutary restraints of domestic discipline.
While the judge declared the husband’s actions to be “deplorable,” he ruled that the courts should not interfere in cases of “moderate chastisement,” such matters being better dealt with by the family. The “Justice Raymond” the Mississippi judge referred to is probably Lord Robert Raymond, a British judge who served from 1724-33. But no one has been able to find a ruling by Raymond on spousal abuse. The Mississippi judge probably confused Raymond with Buller.
A pair of cases from North Carolina occur later in the nineteenth century. In the 1868 matter of State v. Rhodes, a state trial court had found:
that the defendant struck Elizabeth Rhodes, his wife, three licks, with a switch about the size of one of his fingers (but not as large as a man's thumb) without any provocation except some words uttered by her and not recollected by the witness.
But because the switch was smaller than a man’s thumb, the court acquitted the husband. On appeal, the North Carolina Supreme Court argued:
Two boys under fourteen years of age fight upon the play-ground, and yet the courts will take no notice of it, not for the reason that boys have the right to fight, but because the interests of society require that they should be left to the more appropriate discipline of the school room and of home. It is not true that boys have a right to fight; nor is it true that a husband has a right to whip his wife. And if he had, it is not easily seen how the thumb is the standard of size for the instrument which he may use, as some of the old authorities have said; and in deference to which was his Honor's charge. A light blow, or many light blows, with a stick larger than the thumb, might produce no injury; but a switch half the size might be so used as to produce death. The standard is the effect produced, and not the manner of producing it, or the instrument used.
And the state supreme court ruled that while a husband beating his wife in any manner was illegal, courts should take no notice:
unless some permanent injury be inflicted, or there be an excess of violence, or such a degree of cruelty as shows that it is inflicted to gratify his own bad passions.
So, the North Carolina Supreme Court ruled that the lower court had erred in finding the man not guilty because of the size of the switch, but said he was still not guilty because no permanent injury was inflicted. But in so doing, the court also acknowledged that it was out of step with contemporary legal opinion, as laws in other states and prevailing legal thought would disagree with its decision:
Because our opinion is not in unison with the decisions of some of the sister States, or with the philosophy of some very respectable law writers, and could not be in unison with all, because of their contrariety— decent respect for the opinions of others has induced us to be very full in stating the reasons for our conclusion.
This 1868 decision was subsequently overturned as “obsolete or repugnant to the freedom and independence of this state and our form of government” and is no longer a valid decision under North Carolina law.
A few years later, in the 1874 case of State v. Oliver, the North Carolina Supreme Court reaffirmed its earlier ruling, while upholding the conviction of a man because his beating his wife, while inflicting no permanent injury, was done out of “malice and cruelty”:
We may assume that the old doctrine, that a husband had a right to whip his wife, provided he used a switch no larger than his thumb, is not law in North Carolina. Indeed, the Courts have advanced from that barbarism until they have reached the position, that the husband has no right to chastise his wife, under any circumstances.
But from motives of public policy,--in order to preserve the sanctity of the domestic circle, the Courts will not listen to trivial complaints.
If no permanent injury has been inflicted, nor malice, cruelty nor dangerous violence shown by the husband, it is better to draw the curtain, shut out the public gaze, and leave the parties to forget and forgive.
No general rule can be applied, but each case must depend upon the circumstances surrounding it.
In the 1871 case of Fulgham v. The State, Alabama did better than these other states. It ruled that any instance of a person hitting their spouse, other than in self-defense, is a crime. In the case, the husband was convicted of striking his wife after she rebuked him. The trial court rejected the defendant’s argument that moderate chastisement was permissible and specifically said the prior rulings in Mississippi and North Carolina were not the law in Alabama. On appeal, the state supreme court affirmed the lower court’s ruling, letting the conviction stand. In its ruling, the state supreme court didn’t mention thumbs, but it did refer to “rod which may be drawn through a wedding ring” as not being a valid standard:
Since [Blackstone’s time], however, learning, with its humanizing influences, has made great progress, and morals and religion have made some progress with it. Therefore, a rod which may be drawn through the wedding ring is not now deemed necessary to teach the wife her duty and subjection to the husband. The husband is therefore not justified or allowed by law to use such a weapon, or any other, for her moderate correction.
In its conclusion, the Alabama Supreme Court called spousal abuse, “a low and barbarous custom, and never was a law.”
So, to sum up the jurisprudence on the question of beating one’s wife with a weapon smaller than a man’s thumb, what we have is that standard was never valid in England, and the idea that a husband could use moderate corporal punishment on his wife has been rejected since at least the seventeenth century. One eighteenth-century English judge, i.e., Buller, probably made some sort of statement to the effect that it was permissible to do so, but he was roundly excoriated for saying it. In the United States, courts generally ruled that spousal abuse was wrong, but some opined that except in severe cases it was not a judicial matter. One lower court did rule that the thumb rule was valid, but it was overturned on appeal. And while a handful of states in the nineteenth century did rule that moderate corporal punishment was if not strictly legal, not a matter for the courts to adjudicate, these were the exception. None of these legal cases invoked the phrase rule of thumb.
The association of the phrase rule of thumb with the folklaw began in the 1970s. A pair of writings on spousal abuse seem to have made that connection. In 1976, feminist activist Del Martin wrote the following in her book Battered Wives, which has been misinterpreted by many:
In America, early settlers held European attitudes towards women. Our law, based upon the old English common-law doctrines, explicitly permitted wife-beating for correctional purposes. However, certain restrictions did exist, and the general trend in the young states was toward declaring wife-beating illegal. For instance, the common-law doctrine had been modified to allow the husband “the right to whip his wife, provided that he used a switch no bigger than his thumb”—a rule of thumb, so to speak.
Martin’s summary of the common and case law is incorrect—although the fact that the legal establishment frequently ignored cases of spousal abuse certainly was the case—but her use of rule of thumb is not a claim that the phrase came out of the practice. Her use of “so to speak” indicates that she is saying that the any doctrine of moderate punishment was a sort of rough and ready rule to excuse behavior that should be inexcusable. But the passage can be and was misread.
A year after Martin’s book was published, Terry Davidson wrote the following:
One of the reasons nineteenth century British wives were dealt with so harshly by their husbands and by their legal system was the “rule of thumb.” Included in the British Common Law was a section regulating wifebeating. The law was created as an example of compassionate reform when it modified the weapons a husband could legally use in “chastising” his wife. The old law had authorized a husband to “chastise his wife with any reasonable instrument.” The new law stipulated that the reasonable instrument be only “a rod not thicker than his thumb.” In other words, wifebeating was legal.
As we have seen, other than the fact that spousal abuse was and is all too prevalent, nothing in this paragraph is correct. Elsewhere in the piece Davidson quotes Blackstone, but interprets Blackstone’s statement of the old practice as an endorsement.
Given the proximity of the dates of publication, it seems unlikely that Davidson was aware of Martin’s book when she wrote her article. But the two in tandem seem to have been enough to implant the false idea in the public’s consciousness.
To sum up: yes, spousal abuse is an evil and all too prevalent; no, the phrase rule of thumb does not have its origins in a legal justification for spousal abuse.
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